Currently, vdev_disk_physio_completion will try to wake up an waiter without
first checking the existence. This creates a race window in which complete is
called after dr is freed.
We add dr_wait in dio_request to indicate the existence of waiter. Also,
remove dr_rw since no one is using it, and reorder dr_ref to make the struct
more compact in 64bit.
Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <david.chen@osnexus.com>